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This is the part where every other fat loss article tells you why it’s not your fault, why it’s all going to be okay with this one simple trick, and why you’re a special snowflake who just needs to think happy thoughts and click your heels so you feel justified reading it – well, guess what?
That’s silly – because it IS your fault.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, or your body, for whatever reason, that’s your problem. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you’re going to start making progress.
You can read all the “TOP 10 FAT LOSS HACKS YOU AREN’T DOING” articles you want, or stare at motivational quotes by some famous dead person plastered across a pair of random abs or glutes – but until you realise that change depends on you getting off your ass and doing something, nothing’s going to happen because your fat loss is down to you actually wanting to make a change.
And seeing we’re here now: I get gazillions of emails and questions from people asking me for the solution to their lack of motivation – well, sorry to be the bearer of bad news but there is no solution.
Here’s what nobody tells you about motivation: the more you look for motivation, the less motivated you become – because you don’t do anything.
Action begets motivation.
And unless you – yes, you – don’t start taking the steps toward making a positive change, no other person or thing can help. If this isn’t what you want to hear, then feel free to close this page and go back to living in denial. For those of you who are ready to accept this and want to make a change, let’s get started. 2
Here’s the dirty secret of the diet world: Every diet works.
Don’t believe me? Fine. Let me drop some facts on your face.
In 1964 a group from the Institute for Medical Research in Oakland, California, set out to study the impact of different macronutrient compositions on weight loss in obese patients.
The study involved five obese patients residing in a hospital metabolic ward.
The patients were fed a liquid formula diet containing the same number of calories per day – either 800, 850, or 1200 (depending on the patient) – for ten weeks.
Every three or four weeks the investigators changed the formula to vary its content of protein (from 14 to 36 percent of calories), fat (from 12 to 83 percent of calories), and carbohydrates (3 to 64 percent of calories).
ALL of the obese patients lost weight at a constant rate, regardless of the nutrient composition of the diet; whether fat or carbohydrate intake was high or low – what mattered was the total calorie deficit.
The title of the study was eponymous to the findings: Calories Do Count 3
A similar experiment was done in 2009, with researchers concluding: 4
All diets work by, in one way or another (whether they admit it or not) having you control your calorie intake.
You get the idea.
So, to clarify: all diets work by having you control your calorie intake in some way.
People don’t fail with diets – people fail to maintain a diet for the long-term. And the biggest reason why is because they fall for nonsense like juice cleanses, or adding butter to coffee because apparently butter is a health food now – spoiler: it’s not. Or any of the smorgasbord of weird and wacky nonsense that’s rampant in the diet world. If you’re wanting to be successful with your fat loss, find a diet you enjoy and can stick to. Here are some considerations that will help you do just that.
Considerations for picking a diet
After much thought and deliberation on the topic, I’ve noted two things that every good diet should have: Enjoyability and healthiness.
But, there needs to be an equal amount of enjoyability factor to its healthiness factor -otherwise, the diet is dumb. We can represent this with the How Dumb is Your Diet graph.
The graph has four quadrants, so let’s take a look.
• Quadrant 1.Enjoyable but not healthy: This is the prototypical Standard Western Diet – high fat, high carb, high calorie, high everything. It’s highly enjoyable but about as healthy as bungee jumping without the bungee into a pit of fire breathing great white sharks.
• Quadrant 2. Healthy but not enjoyable: This is when you eat in a way you don’t enjoy but think it’s the only way and is the direct opposite of the above. It doesn’t matter how healthy a diet is if you don’t enjoy it.
• Quadrant 3.Not enjoyable and not healthy: This is the mystical realm of what I like to call “Dumb”. And it’s where things like juice cleanses and coffee enemas (no, really, this is a thing) reside. Like Mufasa told Simba: Stay away from there.
• Quadrant 4. Healthy and enjoyable: This is where you want to be. You’re eating a diet that provides you with a wide range of whole, nutrient-rich foods while allowing you to eat in a way you enjoy.
Understanding Healthiness and Enjoyability
It’s important to understand what I mean when I use the terms ‘healthiness’ and ‘enjoyability’.
– Enjoyability 5
• Taste preference: Does your diet support your personal taste preference? If you enjoy fattier foods then your diet should account for that. If you enjoy carb-based foods, then you probably shouldn’t be using a ketogenic diet.
• Quirks: I didn’t really know what to call this, so we’re going with quirks. Do you enjoy cheat meals or higher calorie days? Or maybe having fasting days? Then your diet should account for this.
• Autonomy/choice: The overall enjoyability of the diet will be predicated on whether it was your choice. (Refer back to quadrant 2 of the How Dumb Is Your Diet Graph).
We can break healthiness down to psychological and physiological health.
• Restrictiveness: The biggest psychological factor here is how restrictive your diet is. Now, just to be clear, restriction is a necessity at times – a calorie deficit, for example, is a form of restriction – and you need to understand that to be successful in changing your body composition there will be times when you’re going to need to be disciplined and restrict certain foods. But, this should only be for a short period of time and not how you should be eating all the time.
• Personality Type? This sounds complicated, but it’s not. Simply put, your personal idiosyncrasies play an important role in how you set up your diet. I’ve noted that people generally fall into two categories:
– Moderators: Moderators are people who can moderate food intake. These are the people who can have a few bites and stop. These types of dieters do well with a much less rigid and more flexible approach. They thrive on the “IIFYM” based diets. They don’t have many trigger foods and can eat everything in moderation.
– Restrictors: restrictors are the polar opposite. They need a lot more structure and rules (and certain restrictions). These are the people who do well with removing certain foods if they cause bingeing or overeating.
• “Must Haves”: ‘Must haves’ are things that you absolutely must have in your diet or it’s a no-go. Now, don’t get me wrong, chances are that there will be some things you’ll have to remove if they’re going to impede your progress (like trigger foods); but generally, these will only amount to a small number of things, whereas the must haves will be the overarching things, like certain foods, macros, etc.
Must haves will also include your work and life circumstances – do you travel? Are you sedentary / seated for large parts of the day? Does your job have odd work hours, like working night shifts?
• Calorie controlled: Of course calorie control will be king, because even a healthful diet won’t save you from the ill-effects of carrying excess body fat.
• Food quality: As I mentioned here, food quality does matter and plays a powerful role in health and longevity.
• Body Fat %: I’ve touched on this in detail inSimply, your body fat levels will dictate what sort of macro composition you should be using. Due to things like insulin resistance, people with higher a body fat % tend to fare better on a lower carb diet. And conversely, someone with a lower body fat % tends to fare better with a carb-focused diet – there are, of course, exceptions. But this holds true for most.
I just want to point out that it’s not necessary for people with a high level of body fat to go low carb, and as long as there is a calorie deficit in place, you will lose fat. However, from experience, people with high levels of body fat (20%+) tend to fare much better restricting carbohydrates initially. Their energy levels tend to stabilise, they feel less lethargic, cravings subside, and due to the water loss from going low carb, it acts as a motivator as they see results from the get go.
• Injuries and Medical History: Pretty straightforward – any injury or medical history that may affect your training and diet should be factored in. Even if you think you’re perfectly healthy, it doesn’t hurt to get a check-up before starting a new diet and training programme.
All of this is important to understand because while the basics of changing your body composition are simple –energy balance– each person’s personal psychology and physiology will differ. Someone who’s never exercised before and has a lot of fat to lose will have different physiological and psychological requirements than someone who stopped training for a while and gained some body fat in the interim; conversely, a lean beginner is going to be in a different place than an overweight beginner.
Once you’ve understood your psychological and physiological needs of dieting, you can start to set up your actual diet. And, on that note…
When it comes to diet setup, there’s a hierarchy of priority.
As the pyramid above illustrates:
Calories come first.
Despite what you’ve probably heard about hormones and insulin and good and bad calories and demonic toxins living inside of you bent on eating your insides – the number one reason you’re not losing fat is because you’re eating too much. Yes, even when you’re adamant you aren’t. 6
Setting calorie intake
I’m going to give you a super simple way to set your calorie intake. While people try to impress you with fancy equations, the truth is that the difference between the most complicated equations and the simplest (like the one I’m about to show you) is only 5%; and seeing your calories will be adjusted anyway, the easier it is to set your numbers, the less paralysis by analysis and the sooner you can start getting results. Cool? Cool.
To work out your fat loss calories:
Take your bodyweight in pounds and multiply it by 9-14 7
Why the range? Simple: depending on a few factors your calorie needs will vary.
- If you’re a sedentary female (think office job) who trains anywhere from 3-5x per week: go with the lower end (9-10).
- If you’re a female who works a fairly active job or any job that has you on your feet quite a bit and you’re training 3-5x per week: go with the mid range (10-12).
- If you’re a sedentary male (office job) who trains 3-5x per week: go with the low to mid-range (10-12).
- If you’re a male who works a fairly active job, like I dunno, maybe you’re Batman or something and you’re training 3-5x per week: go with the higher end (12-14).
Ok, so you’ve set your calorie intake – awesome. Now, we need to set your macros.
Macro is short-form for “macronutrient”. Macronutrients make up the components of food and are:
Macronutrients are needed by the body in large amounts – thus the ‘macro’ – to keep you alive and functioning.
Macronutrients contain calories and each macronutrient contains a certain number of calories per gram.
As you can see, fat contains more calories per gram than protein and carbohydrates, and while I could explain why by talking about carbon atoms and oxidation and a host of other nutrition nerdery – who really cares? Let’s move on.
Protein and Its Importance in Fat Loss
• Muscle Retention: When you’re in a calorie deficit –which, as you know by now is needed to lose fat – the body starts to use its own energy stores for fuel. Strength training provides the stimulus and, in conjunction with eating sufficient protein, stops the body from burning muscle.
• Satiety: Protein is more satiating than either fats or carbohydrates. So, when calories are low and hunger is inevitably high, protein will help keep you full.
• Uh, it’s delicious?
How much do you need?
So, if you’re a guy who weighs 170 lbs:
And if you’re a female who weighs 140lbs:
The general rule is to set protein intake per pound of LEAN MASS. But the problem is, figuring this out can be both time-consuming and troublesome, not forgetting hardly accurate. Using per pound of bodyweight is easier and tends to work pretty well for leaner folk. However, it doesn’t work as well for people who have more fat to lose (20% + body fat).
In this population, going with 0.6g per pound of body weight works better.
For example, if someone is 250lbs, using per pound of body weight would mean 250g of protein. This amount is unnecessary. I’ve found using 0.6g/lb to work well for this population: 250 lb x 0.6g/lb = 150 gram of protein.
Far more reasonable.
• And lastly, you have carbs and fats.
Once calorie and protein intakes are set, the number of carbs or fats you consume is totally up to you. If you prefer a higher carb diet, then eat a higher carb diet; if you prefer a higher fat diet, then eat a higher fat diet.
Remember: the psychology of dieting is more important than the physiology of dieting – pick what suits your taste preference.
A few things that warrant highlighting before we move on.
• Carbs may not be essential to our survival (unlike protein and fats, we could survive without consuming carbs) but there’s a difference between ‘surviving’ and ‘thriving’. Carb-based foods contain important vitamins, minerals, and fibre that lend themselves to a healthy body and life.
• Despite the recent rise in popularity of low-carb, high-fat diets, carbs are the preferred fuel source of the human body, not dietary fat. 8
• While a chronically low-fat diet can affect testosterone levels, what is often overlooked is the totality of the caloric deficit and more importantly how much weight (and body fat) someone’s lost. Eric Helms summed this up brilliantly:
”In many ways, body fat is the same as food intake, it’s all available energy, and this is reflected in the fact that adipose tissue produces leptin. You can increase fat by 10-20g, and that’s another 90-180 calories your body “sees”, but gain 1lb of body fat and you’ve got 3500kcals that your body is seeing now…so yeah, changes in body fat can make much larger impacts than what you consume…that’s why I shake my head when guys freak out about going from 50g to 45g of dietary fat….really, you think the 45 calories per day is what is going to kill your libido, not the fact that you lost 10lbs (35,000kcals) of fat? ”
Some recommendations :
– If you enjoy a carb-focused diet, ensure fat intake makes up at least 25-30% of total caloric intake.
– When in a calorie deficit, don’t let your fat intake drop lower than 15% of total calories.
Setting carb and fat intakes?
- Set fat intake between 0.3 – 0.6g/lb.
If you prefer a higher fat diet, go with the higher end (0.6g/lb), if you prefer a higher carb diet, go with the lower end (0.3g/lb). Or, of course, if you prefer a moderate split of the two, then go somewhere in the middle (0.5g/lb). I’m not here to tell you what you should do, only what you can do and then you decide what suits you best.
Setting Up Your Diet
I know I just blasted your face off with a bunch of information, so now I’m going to illustrate how you’d take all of this and put it to use.
Tim’s let himself go a bit and over the years his weight (and body fat) has crept up. He currently weighs 190 lbs and according to his doctor:
Determined not to die and finally see his abs, our cuddly hero decides to sort his shit out.
So, remember – calories first.
Tim isn’t very active, working an office job sees him seated for 8+ hours a day. So we’ll go with the lower end of 10 as his multiplier.
To work out his calorie intake we’re going to take his body weight in lbs and multiply it by 10:
So, Tim’s calorie intake per day for fat loss is going to be 1990 Cals.
Next, we need to set his protein intake.
As I mentioned before, keep things simple and set protein intake to 1g/lb.
Tim’s daily protein intake will be 190g.
Carbs and fat?
Seeing that Tim has quite a bit of fat to lose, I’d generally keep his carb intake lower 9
However, Tim enjoys his carbs and can’t see himself sticking to a low carb diet – and seeing that adherence is perhaps the biggest factor to diet success, we’re going to set his fat intake to 0.4g/lb to allow for enough carbs.
Tim’s daily fat intake will be 76g of fat per day.
This is where we are right now with Tim’s numbers:
All we need to work out now is his carb intake. To do that, we’re simply going to fill in the calories that remain after having set fat and protein with carbs.
We’re going to first work out the calories in Tim’s protein and fat totals. To do this, multiply his protein intake by 4 (because there are 4 calories in a gram of protein) and multiply his fat intake by 9 (because there are 9 calories in a gram of fat). So, it’ll look like this:
So, we now know that Tim is getting 760 calories from protein, and 684 calories from fat. We now need to add the two totals – protein and fat – together.
So, Tim is getting 1444 calories from his fat and protein intake.
We now subtract the fat and protein total (1444 calories) from his total required calorie intake (1990 calories):
So, Tim has 546 calories left to distribute to carbs.
And now, the last step: Just divide 546 by 4 (because there are 4 calories in a gram of carbohydrate).
So, Tim’s total calorie and macronutrient intakes are:
What should you eat?
So you’ve understood how to set up your diet, and you’ve probably even worked out your own intake. But now you’re staring at these numbers and probably wondering – what the hell do you eat?
More on that in a second, but first: let’s quickly address two common dietary locutions.
• “Just eat clean” –the problem with this line of thinking is that it creates a black and white, good and bad, neurotic mentality toward food. You should eat clean (good) while avoiding junk (bad). But the truth is that no food is inherently ‘bad’. Do some foods have more of a likelihood to be ‘bad’? Sure.
Hyperpalatable foods that can trigger overeating can fall under this category. But, trigger foods can vary person to person. What triggers one person to overeat will differ from somebody else. If you find you can stop eating at one or two slices of pizza but can’t control yourself around chocolate, does it make sense to avoid pizza? Of course not.
• “If It Fits Your Macros” – this is the polar opposite of the eat clean maxim. Eat whatever you like as long as it “fits your macros”. While the intent behind this message was to prevent the neurotic mentality of ‘eat clean’, as is bound to happen, people bastardised the term and began eating all sorts of junk and weird food combinations to ‘hit their macros’.
While there isn’t one ‘best’ way to eat, here’s a general guideline: the DBADF rule.
The “DBADF” Rule
When it comes to food, don’t be a militant dietary nut running around telling people certain foods are “good” and certain foods are “bad”; this isn’t nursery, you’re not getting sent to the “naughty chair” because you ate a slice of pizza. Chill. But, at the same time, you probably – definitely – shouldn’t be eating like a 10 year old let loose in Willy Wonka’s factory.
And this is where the “DBADF” rule comes in:
The, “Don’t Be A Dumb Fool” 10 rule can be applied to pretty much every facet of your life — dating, business, relationships, and of course, your nutrition. It’s super simple: you know when you’re about to do something stupid and there’s that tiny voice in the back of your head that whispers “Hey, don’t be a dumb fool”? Well, basically that.
I want to believe that most of you have some semblance of what ‘healthy’ foods are, and if you don’t – please refer to the pretty picture I painstakingly drew below (because apparently olive oil bottles don’t give a fuck and are impossible to draw). There, you’ll see that some foods should be limited while other foods should make up the bulk of your diet.
A simple rule:
70-80% of your diet should consist of whole, nutrient-rich foods and the remaining 20-30% can be filled with whatever you want. 11
So the next time you’re wondering what to eat, just use the DBADF rule. 12
What you eat will also be influenced by your goal and personality type.
• If you’re a Restrictor personality type: While no foods should be off limits, some foods should be limited. For example, for the restrictor type personality, foods that you have trouble controlling yourself around should be kept out of the house. The more the temptation is there, the more likely you are to break down and overeat. This becomes even more important when you’re dieting and hunger and cravings are at an all time high.
• If you’re in a caloric deficit: you’ll be better off choosing foods that are low in energy density and high in nutrient density. These foods will help keep you full when calories are low. Energy-dense foods like cereal, chocolate bars, ice cream, Pop-Tarts, etc. are less filling and thus less satiating. This is why you can eat a chocolate bar and be hungry again ten minutes later, while a [calorically] comparable meal filled with protein and veggies will keep you fuller for longer.
• Some people don’t want to ‘fit’ in tiny amounts of treats on a daily basis, and would rather have a day on the weekend where they can consume more calories. This is totally fine.
But, Aadam, what about supplements?
The fitness world is rife with innumerable supplements claiming to help you burn fat and build muscle. Unfortunately, as sexy as these claims are, there are very few supplements that actually work and even then, these only work if your diet, training, and lifestyle are in order.
So, if you do have your diet, training, and lifestyle in order – here are some supplements that might be beneficial.
NB: Most people should stick with the low end, unless you mainline caffeine on a daily basis, in which case go with the higher end. Just take the required amount 30-60 minutes before training.
But wait, I heard 15 minutes before training?
Caffeine is absorbed from the stomach within 15 to 45 minutes, however, it doesn’t reach it’s peak stimulatory effect until 30 to 70 minutes, so somewhere between 30-60 minutes before you workout will be most optimal.
• Fasted training: If you train fasted, supplementing with BCAA’s can offset any potential muscle loss. Anecdotally, people tend to perform better when they consume BCAA’s during their workout, especially if training early in the day. But is it absolutely necessary? No. If you do train fasted, aim to consume some protein (20-30g) post workout and you’ll be fine.
• IBS: If you have IBS, consuming protein powder can be difficult (if not impossible). In this case, using a BCAA product pre- and post-workout can be beneficial.
Ok, I’m tired of drawing. Let’s wrap this up.
A multivitamin can be useful when you’re dieting and calories are low to help cover any nutritional deficiencies. Outside of that, don’t worry about them. 13
Making Adjustments to the Diet
Every diet will need to be adjusted as you lose weight and get leaner. Here are some suggestions on how to do that.
On starting your diet don’t make any adjustments for the first 4 weeks. The body takes some time to ‘catch up’ to the deficit and waiting 4 weeks from when you first set the deficit will allow enough time for you to gauge what’s happening.
Alright. Let’s assume you’ve done all of the above – you’ve set the deficit, waited 4 weeks, and fat loss really has come to a halt. How do you make the adjustment?
Easy: Reduce calorie intake by 5-10%.
So, if you’re starting calorie intake was 2500 calories, you’d reduce this by 125-250 calories.
Where should the adjustments come from?
This is where people get confused: should you cut carbs, fats, or protein?
- Don’t touch protein intake or you’ll die. Ok, you won’t but seriously – leave protein as it is.
Carbs or fats?
This is going to be your call. But here are some suggestions:
- If you’re following a higher carb diet, reduce carb intake. This reduction would be anywhere between 30 to 60 grams of carbs (1 gram of carbohydrate has 4 calories. 125/4 = ≈30, 250/4 = ≈60) 14
- If you’re following a higher fat or ketogenic diet, reduce fat intake. There are 9 calories in a gram of fat, so the reduction would be anywhere between 10 to 30 grams of fat.
After your first adjustment, keep an eye on your weekly average weight, measurements, and progress photos. Wait 2-3 weeks, If things look like they’re stalling, make another 5-10% reduction. 15
How Fast Can You Lose Fat?
Here’s the thing: You can’t force fat loss. The only thing you can do is coax your body to drop fat by eating in a calorie deficit and complementing it with training. So, firstly:
Calm down and be patient. You didn’t get out of shape in a week, you’re not getting in shape in a week. The people who have this “fast fat loss” mentality are also the ones who tend to gain it back after the diet ends, or quit entirely after a few weeks. Not because aggressive dieting doesn’t work, but because this mentality encourages the use of fad diets that, a) won’t be sustainable in the long-term, and b) doesn’t help you build the habits that allow you to maintain the loss in the long run. 16
Now that’s out the way, the second thing we should probably discuss is how fast you should be expecting to lose fat. This depends on how much fat you have to lose. The higher your starting levels of body fat, the faster you can expect to lose; conversely, the leaner you start, a slower rate of loss will be best to minimise muscle and strength loss.
With that in mind: set fat loss targets between 0.5 – 1% of your total body weight per week. The benefit of using percentages is the rate of loss automatically scales with your body weight.
What About Training for Fat Loss?
Fat loss is all about efficiency. You shouldn’t be “training for fat loss” because you can’t out train your diet – rather, you want to train for muscle and strength gain and retention, while letting your calorie deficit handle the “fat burning”.
And this is where most go wrong. When it comes to losing body fat, there are some things that take precedence over other things as illustrated in this image.
You’ll note that strength training comes before cardio in this hierarchy.
For the reasons I’m about to outline below in an easy-to-read, bullet-point format.
- If you’re wanting to lose fat and change the look of your physique, you need to lift weights. Note I said you need to, not, “If you want to”. The muscle definition is going to come through progressive resistance training. So make that the focus of your training 17
- The ‘lean’, ‘toned’, ‘ripped’ look is predicated on how much muscle you have built and retained – and strength training will help you do that.
- You can’t “spot reduce fat” – selectively lose fat from a certain place on your body. But, you can “spot increase muscle” – selectively increase muscle on certain parts of your body. This, in turn, will help you “tighten up”.
- The stronger you are – increased muscle and connective tissue strength and bone mineral density – the more resilient you become to injuries. Sure, this isn’t directly linked to fat loss, but, I mean, do you want to die? Exactly.
- If you’re really unfit or have a lot of fat to lose, cardio – like running – can be difficult and put a lot of stress on your knees. And for most people, it won’t be sustainable.
- I understand this is perhaps because of my inherent bias, but strength training tends to be more enjoyable, and as you master complex movements and watch your lift numbers go up, this can act as a powerful motivator.
No. That’s not what I’m saying. Cardio isn’t bad – quite the opposite. Everyone should do some form of cardio; swimming, walking, running, hiking, playing a sport – whatever. The point I’m trying to impress upon you is that most people resort to ‘cardio’ when trying to lose fat but it’s of the least importance when changing your body composition is the goal.
Wait, WTF Is Neat?
NEAT stands for Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis and is all the activity that isn’t intentional exercise; fidgeting, walking, playing with your dog, etc.
Ok…Why Should I Give Care?
NEAT is one of the most underrated tools at your disposal if you’re wanting to lose fat. Let me explain why.
There are 24 hours in a day (actually it’s 23 hours and 56 minutes, but I digress), most people who, uh, you know, have a life will only be training for around an hour a day.
That’s ~5% of your day.
Now, there are 168 hours in one week. If someone trains for an hour, 3-5x per week, that’s 3-5 hours of intentional exercise versus 163-165 hours of no exercise.
I’m sure we can all agree that what we do in those 163-165 hours is going to have a far larger influence on our fat loss than what we do in the 3-5 hours in the gym.
And that’s where NEAT comes in.
The graph below shows the difference in calories expended via different jobs. 18
Note how much of a difference there is in calorie expenditure between being seated all day (seated work – no option of moving) and standing work.
Point: simply being more active throughout the day – walking, interspersing periods of sitting and standing, light stretching etc. add up – everything counts. A really simple way to do this is to aim for 10k steps per day.
The Frequently Asked Questions
1. Do I need to eat six times a day to stoke my metabolism?
Out of the many nutrition myths that are prevalent today, this is perhaps one of the most pervasive.
– Green: 5 meals per day
– Red: 3 meals per day
– Blue: 2 meals per day
Notice that the blue bar – 2 meals per day – actually increases your metabolic rate the most, requiring 100 cals to digest the food. The red bar – 3 meals – comes in second, requiring 66 cals. And, contrary to the popular claim, 5 small meals actually comes in last, requiring the least number of calories to digest the food.
So, paradoxically, eating larger, less frequent meals “speeds up your metabolism” more than “small frequent meals”.
Point: Pick a meal frequency that suits you, at a minimum three meals is ideal, but if you prefer 2, or 4, or 5 meals per day – cool. Do that.The number of meals you eat won’t make a difference to your fat loss. So pick the meal frequency that suits you and your lifestyle best.
2. Will sugar kill me?
Probably not. See this.
3. Will aspartame kill me?
Probably not. See this.
4. My friend Becky told me I have a slow metabolism. Do I?
a) You don’t.
b) Stop listening to Becky.
5. Is fasting healthy?
Absolutely, if you’re a healthy individual. If you have health concerns like low blood sugar, you might want to avoid it. As always, please check with your medical professional before starting a new diet.
To read my book on fasting which is totes free – click me.
6. I think I’m in starvation mode.
7. Will eating late at night make me fat?
If eating late at night sees you go into a calorie surplus, yes. Otherwise no.
8. What’s your opinion on waist trainers?
9. I want to lose fat, build muscle, do CrossFit, run a marathon, swim the Atlantic, and climb Mount Everest, I’m so confused.
So am I.
10. Is too much protein bad for my kidneys?
As long as your kidneys are healthy, no. With that said, there’s no need to consume more protein than necessary: aim for around 0.7 – 1g / per pound of body weight.
Also, see this.
11. Will eating more fat make me burn fat?
This is one of those, “It’s-technically-right-but-still-wrong” type things. If dietary fat is the main source of your calorie intake (like, say you’re in a state of ketosis) then yes, your body will primarily use ‘fat’ as it’s main fuel source; ergo, your body is ‘burning fat because you’re eating more fat’.
‘Fat burning’ does not equate to ‘body fat’ burning.
Your body is constantly storing and burning fat in a day and it’s the long term balance – over weeks – that will decide if you’re losing or gaining body fat.
If the amount of fat you burn stays the same as the amount of fat you store over the long term: body fat remains the same.
If the amount of fat you burn over an extended period of time is less than the amount you store: you’ll lose fat.
If the amount of fat you store exceeds the amount of fat you burn: you’ll gain fat.
This is referred to as ‘fat balance’ and is, surprise surprise, dictated by your total calorie intake. So if you’re pouring heaps of butter on everything in the hopes of losing body fat – sorry to break it to you, but you’re fucking up.
12. I’m dieting and I’m hungry – what can I do?
Suck it up.
13. You’re mean.
FINE. Here are some tips.
- Increase Fibre intake – One of the ways our brain determines fullness is the physical stretching of the stomach. Foods high in fibre, such as vegetables and whole-grains, help stretch out the stomach and signal to the brain that you’re full. Fibre also tends to slow down digestion – when you add in fibre to your meals, the rate at which the body digests the food takes longer. The longer this food sits in your stomach the fuller you’ll feel.
- A Consistent Meal Frequency – Ghrelin, the hunger hormone, controls when you get hungry. Fortunately, ghrelin can also be ‘trained’. Training yourself to eat at set times will keep Ghrelin consistent and will create consistent hunger patterns – you’ll get hungry at similar times in the day – this will reduce the risk of falling off plan.
- Skip Breakfast – Restricting your eating window to a shorter time frame by skipping breakfast will mean you can eat larger meals which in turn will help keep you full, both mentally, and physically. While people freak out at the idea of skipping breakfast, it isn’t the most important meal of the day, and it won’t ruin your metabolism. Instead of eating 4-5 small meals at 200 calories, eating 3 large meals at 500 calories will result in better satiety.
- Don’t be extremely restrictive with your diet – What happens if I tell you that you can’t have something? You’re more likely to want that thing, right? This is why unnecessarily restrictive diets don’t last long. Don’t needlessly remove foods from your diet.
- But, restrict some things – No, I’m not contradicting myself. Some foods trigger cravings and can cause you to overeat. If you have foods like that in the house, you will be best served to remove them, and the temptation that comes with them.
- Diet Drinks – As I mentioned earlier, diet drinks can be a great aid during low-calorie periods. Just make sure you’re keeping a tab on these – while you would need to drink a lot (like, really, A LOT) of diet drinks for them to even have the potential to be harmful to health, the main reason for limiting intake is due to hedonic adaptation.
- Coffee – Coffee has great appetite suppressant effects and has also been shown to improve health. Is there anything coffee can’t do? No, it’s basically Jesus in a cup.
14. I’m tracking everything and eating healthy and exercising like a gazillion times a week, AND I STILL CAN’T LOSE FAT. WHAT’S WRONG!?
15. My friend Becky said if I don’t eat breakfast I’ll implode.
What the f – what did I say about listening to Becky?
You don’t have to eat breakfast. Look, let me bring in my not really friend Marion Nestle to explain:
“Many—if not most—studies demonstrating that breakfast eaters are healthier and manage weight better than non-breakfast eaters were sponsored by Kellogg or other breakfast cereal companies whose businesses depend on people believing that breakfast means ready-to-eat cereal.
Independently funded studies tend to show that any eating pattern can promote health if it provides vegetables and fruits, balances calories, and does not include much junk food.”
When you eat matters far less than how much you eat. If you wake up and are feeling hungry, feel free to have breakfast, if you aren’t hungry in the mornings, skip breakfast.
16. Thoughts on fasted training?
17. Should I do cardio for fat loss?
18. Do you have anything about the menstrual cycle and fat loss?